| | Some women seem to think guys are complicated.
This is not exactly true, we just like a few things...done well. If a guy is coming off as "complicated", make sure you're - A: not dating twins without noticing B: he is taking his schizophrenia medication regularly or C: you're most likely reading between lines that don't exist.
Henceforth, this checklist has many points; but you really only need points A through E to keep him happy.
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| (a) Look your best for him |
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| (b) Feed / cook for him |
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| (c) Give him space / time to spend with his friends |
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| (d) Be affectionate** |
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| (e) Let him have his hobbies |
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| Encourge him to lead / be flexible |
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| Help him relax |
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| Hold his arm when you walk |
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Make a good impression on his friends
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| Don't talk about guys in front of him |
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| Surprise him with food |
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| Play video games / sports with him |
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| Never badmouth his mother |
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Make him feel like you want him, not that you need him |
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| Let him watch the game uninteruppted, or watch it together |
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| Give him gentle reminders |
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| Massage his neck, shoulders, arms, and hands |
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| Try not to sweat the small stuff |
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| Let him help when he offers |
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Act classy, not trashy (especially when out with friends)
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**you know what I mean when I say "affectionate"
Like the last list, the frequency of some of these can be adjusted as well...I mean, almost all guys like to be fed as much as possible.
Alright Mathletes, break out that abacus and count up those brownies...
Score: 1-3 of A through E: 
4-5 of A through E: 
A-E, and up to 10 points: 
A-E; 11-20 points:
A-E; 21+ points(!!):
Guys, if you have any incarnation of a gold star girlfriend and have a job? You'd better wrap her up like Christmas presents, she's a keeper.
If she's two or three gold stars? I suggest you comment on this blog, then close this page and start browsing wedding ring websites. Seriously, that Entourage DVD box set, and new iPhone can wait. Start saving for a rock. A big one, she deserves it. No heart shaped diamonds though, I will punch you. Princess-cut is a decent fallback.
So ladies: What's YOUR score?
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| | Posted 6/23/2009 8:45 AM - 813 Views - 99 eProps - 58 comments
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